What is up with this checklist? Don't get me wrong, everybody should have some sort of standards when it comes to finding that significant other or even dating. Don't settle for anything because you get what you ask for.
Let's check out the list for guys....
That's about it. Funny thing is, this should be the list for everybody right? We can assume that crackhead, thief, rapist, and any other thing you can get charged with are automatically off the list for both genders. Someone with most of their teeth, a job, less than 3 illegitimate kids that they know about, I mean some standards.
Guys want someone that is attractive to them (buyer's choice only), that doesn't get on their nerves, good mother, and pays for 40% of the bills. Yep. That's about it.
Now for the ladies....
Ladies....I love you I really do. I mean love you in all the ways you allow me. Yes that includes anal. But why does your list look like this? You list has a table of contents, a wiki page and some references. You list has a version for dummies that is still 10 pages long. You list has an addendum that is notarized. WTF!!!!
Your list doesn't even have logic. Gotta be this height, make this much money, have this many degrees and still keep it hood. Gotta want and love kids. Gotta love God and Allah. What? Why do women try to size you up too like they can tell the items you fit on their checklist before you even try to approach them. He too short, he ain't packing...WHAT? He only got one drink, he broke. He rode with his friends, he must not have a car and live with his momma. WHATTT? Bish, I just wanted to save my gas money...smh.
All I'm saying is put the list down and go with it. Stop listening to your girlfriends when y'all in that huddle calling plays at the club too. It's a reason those hoes lonely too. The best person you probably will meet is just waiting for you to put that guard down.
Remember, its really not that hard if you throw that list out.
Love isn't complicated....people are.
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